Trauma Therapy

Do The Effects Of Trauma Negatively Affect Your Life? 

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“The survivor who is accomplished in her recovery faces life with few illusions but often with gratitude.” – Judith Herman, from her book Trauma and Recovery 

Are you a trauma survivor living with the symptoms of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)? Has persistent anxiety, depression, or emotional dissociation or numbness prevented you from leading a fuller, more deeply connected life? Do you struggle with building trust, developing closeness, or communicating your needs in relationships?  

In the aftermath of trauma, you may have become disconnected from the world around you. Rather than feeling engaged and present in your daily routine, it might be difficult for you to escape the sense of feeling like something is wrong. Not only could nightmares, flashbacks, and panic attacks be an ongoing reminder of your trauma, but your need to remain hypervigilant could impact your ability to problem-solve and think on your feet.  

The Emotional Impact Of Trauma 

Perhaps you often feel anxious and can’t stop worrying about the worst possible outcome. Or maybe you suffer from bouts of depression that cause severe sadness, irritability, or lethargy. At other times you may experience emotional numbness and feel empty inside. Underscoring it all may be a deep sense of shame or guilt you can’t shake. Even though you know it isn’t rational, you might engage in negative self-talk, as though what happened to you is somehow your fault. 

In addition to physical symptoms—such as headaches, changes in appetite, and sleep disturbances—you may have trouble maintaining close relationships with friends and family. Your challenges may result from a lack of trust, fear of abandonment, or unhealthy boundary-setting. 

If only you could find a way to heal from past traumas, you would shed the burden you carry and reengage in life. Therapy offers a safe space to process your trauma and address your trauma-related symptoms as well as PTSD alongside a compassionate, supportive therapist. With trauma treatment, you can take back control and become the person you want to be. 

Sexual Trauma Is Prevalent Worldwide 

​​​As survivors of sexual abuse, we often minimize the impact it has on us. Even though we experienced a violation of our body and soul with far-reaching and profound effects on our sense of safety and well-being, we don’t necessarily associate what happened to us with trauma. We may mistakenly believe that PTSD is reserved for those who have experienced active combat or lived through war, but we’d be wrong. 

Recovering From Trauma Is Hard To Do Alone 

Looking at our current cultural climate, so many factors contribute to trauma, including: 

  • Pervasive sexual and physical violence 

  • Crime 

  • Adverse childhood experiences (ACEs)  

  • Financial disparities

  • Systemic oppression  

Unfortunately, society’s outdated norms and beliefs related to trauma serve to exacerbate it. Without public acknowledgment, survivors feel isolated in their experience. 

Many of us don’t realize how challenging recovery can be. Without understanding the complex nature of trauma, we often underestimate how much it affects us and think we should be able to get over it without treatment. However, receiving validation and understanding from a counselor who can also provide specialized techniques for processing trauma and PTSD is the key to effective healing.  

If the trauma you experienced—whether it was childhood neglect, sexual assault, or physical abuse—is keeping you stuck, therapy is the first step in getting your life back on track. With counseling, you can learn how to process the trauma your body is still holding onto.  

Therapy Provides You A Safe Space To Process And Heal Your Trauma 

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Experiencing traumatic events can be devastating. Not only can unresolved trauma negatively impact your emotional, mental, and physical well-being, but it can also affect your ability to maintain relationships, excel at work, and connect on a spiritual level. I provide a warm and trusting environment where you are safe to discuss and process past or current trauma. Within this space, you can work towards healing and recovery by regaining your safety, identity, and sense of control. Tapping into your innate resilience can empower you to fortify your relationships and reawaken your engagement in life. 

What To Expect In Sessions 

Initially, we will work on establishing a trusting therapeutic relationship where you will feel at ease talking about your trauma. We might review the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) for trauma together to confirm what symptoms challenge you the most. I also like to incorporate psychoeducation into sessions to explain the physiological impacts of trauma and how they affect the brain and body.  

In ongoing therapy sessions, we will address your trauma comprehensively and set goals to track your progress. Exploring trauma processing, coping skills, cognitive restructuring, emotional regulation, relationship issues, and resilience-building will provide you with the necessary tools to heal. By the end of therapy, we hope to reduce your PTSD symptoms, improve your daily functioning, and increase your self-awareness to enhance your quality of life. 

A Well-Rounded Approach To Trauma Therapy  

As a trauma specialist, I have trained in a variety of modalities effective for treating the symptoms of PTSD. This well-rounded approach allows me to customize treatment based on your unique needs: 

  • Narrative Therapy: Exploring and reconstructing your narrative related to trauma empowers you to reshape your self-identity and find meaning and resilience through storytelling; 

  • Somatic Experiencing (SE): Focusing on bodily sensations and releasing the physical tension related to trauma allows you to process your experience and regulate your nervous system where trauma is stored. You will also develop grounding techniques to connect with your body and cultivate a sense of safety;  

  • Mindfulness-Based Exercises: These techniques cultivate present-moment awareness, helping you develop a non-judgmental attitude toward your thoughts and emotions. Through breathing exercises and visualization, you can learn how to anchor yourself in the present when triggered by trauma-related sensations or memories;  

  • Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT): Identifying and challenging negative thoughts and beliefs related to trauma serves to quiet your critical inner voice. Trauma-focused CBT can help you develop cognitive restructuring techniques to reframe distorted thinking patterns and promote more positive and adaptive thinking. 

Recovering from trauma is a courageous and transformative process. With help and support, profound healing and growth are possible. While the journey may have its ups and downs, remember that you are not alone. Therapy can begin to unravel the layers of trauma, process the pain, and gradually reclaim your life. You can develop new coping skills, find healthier ways to regulate your emotions, and cultivate a sense of safety and trust within yourself and in your relationships. 

But Maybe You’re Not Sure If Trauma Therapy Is Right For You… 


Will recalling painful experiences re-traumatize me?  

Understandably, you may be concerned about how revisiting trauma in therapy will impact you. My utmost priority is to create a safe therapeutic space where we can explore your trauma together at a pace that’s comfortable for you. I will employ trauma-informed techniques and interventions to ensure your emotional well-being and minimize your risk of being re-traumatized.  


I’ve avoided trauma therapy up until now for fear of being judged or misunderstood. 

I want to assure you that my role as a therapist is to provide a non-judgmental and empathetic environment where you can freely express yourself. I strive to deeply validate your experiences without judgment or misunderstanding. Confidentiality is strictly maintained to ensure your privacy and give you an opportunity where to share openly and feel genuinely understood and accepted. 


Is it possible to overcome the effects of trauma in counseling?  

With a combination of evidence-based interventions, tailored strategies, and dedication to the healing process, remarkable progress is achievable. I have witnessed many individuals overcome the effects of trauma and lead fulfilling lives. Together, we will work towards post-traumatic growth, empowering you to reclaim your life, develop resilience, and discover a renewed sense of well-being and purpose. 

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You Don’t Have To Do This Alone 

Your healing journey can begin here. To find out more about trauma therapy with Cushing Counseling, visit my contact page or call 703-475-2119 to schedule a free 15-minute call.   

[1] https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26511595/
[2] https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/29075426/ 

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